The Building Blocks

My Family:

My Foundation

Journey with me through my family life – the triumphs, trials, and everything in between. Discover how my family is central to my life and learn the principles that guide our household.

June 2, 2017

Seeds of Love

Devanne and I took our vows in a modest courthouse ceremony. With my boss and a friend as our witnesses, we promised to commit our lives to each other. This was more than just a marriage; it was the birth of an unshakeable partnership, a bond formed through shared dreams and visions for the future. Our journey had just begun, and we knew not what the path would bring, but we were ready to face it together, hand in hand.

August 4, 2018

An Unexpected Joy

Just over a year later, we welcomed our first child, Emry, into our lives. Her arrival was unexpected, discovered only two months into a pregnancy amidst the turmoil of starting a new business. But she was no less a miracle, bringing light into our lives in a time of uncertainty and struggle. Emry’s birth was a testament to our faith and a beacon of hope guiding us through our tumultuous journey.

February 14, 2020

Sealing Our Love

On Valentine’s Day, 2020, we took another significant step in our family’s journey. We were sealed together in the Las Vegas Nevada Temple, an affirmation of our belief in the eternity of family bonds. On this day, our love transcended the earthly plane, fortifying our commitment to each other and our daughter, Emry. It was a spiritual experience that strengthened our faith and family ties.

December 28, 2020

Gift of Mercy

As 2020 drew to a close, amidst a global pandemic and the profound sorrow of losing Mercy’s twin, we welcomed our second daughter. Mercy’s birth was a beacon of hope and joy, a testimony to our family’s resilience and faith. Despite the challenges we faced, her arrival was a poignant reminder of the enduring nature of love and the power of family.

May 11, 2021

Loss & Love

My mother, our family’s rock, was abruptly taken from us. She went into the hospital with a headache one early Sunday morning, and by Monday she was brain dead. We made the heartbreaking decision to let her go. This devastating loss brought us closer together, reminding us of the fleeting nature of life and the enduring power of love.

February 1, 2023

Arrival of Naevy

With the arrival of our third child, Naevy, in 2023, our family opened a new chapter. Her birth was a joyful expansion of our family circle, enriching our lives with fresh love and gratitude. Each smile, each giggle, each moment with Naevy is a testament to life’s simplest and most profound pleasure – the endless capacity to love and cherish.

A Family Man's Wisdom

Lessons Gleaned from Life's Journey

As I continue on this journey of family life, I’ve been fortunate enough to gain some wisdom along the way. From learning about patience to understanding the power of presence, my experiences have shaped my perspective on what it means to be a family man. Here are the lessons that have made the most significant impact on my life, and continue to shape the way I approach each day. I share these in the hope that they might offer some insight or comfort to others on their own journey.

I’ve come to realize that the value we often assign to material gifts fades in comparison to the importance of quality time and presence. To a child, there’s little difference between a 99 cent hot dog and a $99 steak; it’s not about the price tag, but the shared experience and joy. The most meaningful thing I can offer my family is my presence, my attention, and my love. These are the gifts that truly matter and make a lasting impact.
Having a family is an exercise in patience for me. Between the sleepless nights, the tantrums, and the endless mess, I’ve been challenged more times than I can count. But through it all, I’ve learned to take a deep breath and remember that this is all part of the journey. This understanding has not only made me a better parent but a more patient and understanding person overall.
Being a parent has given me a new perspective on unconditional love. The love my children give me isn’t based on whether I’m a perfect parent. It’s given freely, even when I lose my patience or feel like I’ve fallen short. It’s a powerful reminder of what true love looks like.

Experiencing the birth of my children and the loss of my mother has given me a profound understanding of the fragility and beauty of life. The joyous highs and heart-wrenching lows have taught me to cherish each moment and make the most out of the time I have with my loved ones.

Through all the ups and downs, I’ve learned the importance of resilience. Whether it’s bouncing back from a tough day or overcoming a significant loss, the ability to recover and keep going has been essential.

Shared Moments

Family Fun

As a family, we believe in not just being together, but truly living together. That means laughter, exploration, and creating memories. These shared moments and experiences are the threads that weave the tapestry of our family life together. Here, we invite you to share in a slice of our joy, in our collective journey of love and growth, captured in these moments of family fun.

Guides for the Journey

Family Enrichment Resources

The journey of family life is an exhilarating adventure, one that often calls for guidance, inspiration, and shared wisdom. Here are some resources that have enriched our understanding and enhanced our family experience. We hope these books, articles, and tools bring your family as much insight and joy as they have brought ours.

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Our Family Travels

Memories Across the Map

Exploring the world together is one of our family’s favorite activities. Each new place we visit brings fresh experiences, sights, and memories that we cherish. This map highlights our travels as a family so far, every pin a testament to our shared adventures. Join us as we continue to add more destinations to our family’s journey across the states.

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Connect and Share

Sharing Family Wisdom

Our family experiences are not meant to be kept within the walls of our homes but shared, so they can ripple out and benefit others. If you have stories, insights, or resources that have made a significant difference in your family’s life, I’d love to hear about them.

Your insights could be the lifeline another family is looking for.

Use this form to share your experiences, ask questions, or just say hi. Your input can help build a community of families learning, growing, and inspiring each other together. I look forward to hearing from you!